Perhaps the lady truly resented my efforts to validate her identity and did not wish to participate in this effort.
Her reasons are open to speculation but I saw this as a small effort to work through a problem in an unconventional dating scenario.
It seemed like I was receiving a reply within three hours after sending a letter and the responses were very generic, weak and always included two photos of the lady.
There were no description or comments accompanying the photos.
I personally would have no qualms in doing it if the roles were reversed.